Jun 11, 2013 - Musings    No Comments

Deepak’s 5 Rules for a Healthful Life

  1. Diligence – Self observance: pay attention to what you Think, Say, and do without Judgment.
  2. Silence – Meditate daily
  3. Live the Question – “Who am I?”, “What’s my Purpose?”
  4. Make Love a Priority.
  5. Never cease to have a sense of Wonder – Don’t do anything that isn’t fun.  Are the people around you fun? Are my actions improving my life and the lives of others?

 

Physical and Mental cancers are manifestations of not eliminating destructive practices – whether physical like over-eating or under-exercising or mental like wallowing in anger, resentment, judgments, envy, or duplicity. 

Self-awareness, Diligence, Forgiveness, Gratitude, and Joyfulness are the cures and sustaining processes.

The Choice is always ours.

Jun 9, 2013 - Musings    No Comments

10 Happiness Practices

by James Dawborn


I have here 10 things you can do today to improve your life and current situation.. enjoy

1. Develop a circle of close associations who cherish working on values and goals instead of sharing problems and difficulties. Help others on a daily basis by becoming a role model for an ethical hard working individual. Work on becoming more optimistic by eliminating cynicism from your life and conversations.

2. Record your strengths and weaknesses in a diary and each day write down some positive things you will achieve for that day.

3. Progress is the key to happiness so gain more knowledge and strive to learn new skills on a weekly basis. Create a compelling future for yourself

4. Your vocabulary matters.  When you speak positive, uplifting thoughts, when you compliment others, when you stop cursing and start praising, it uplifts you into a more positive human being. Write down negative phrases you say each day and “reframe” them into a more positive outlook on life.

5. Practice the ability to accept change, and risk what you are passionate about achieving. Start with small goals you know you can achieve. This will build your self- confidence and give you the courage to risk bigger and more joy inducing, long term thrills.

6. Trust your own intuition. Believe in yourself. Associate with positive, uplifting people, think and exude positive thoughts and attitudes. Act enthusiastic and you’ll train your brain to be enthusiastic.

7. Be confident and build good relationships with people. Be fortunate for who you are and where your dreams can take you.

8. Embrace the law of attraction as it responds the way your mind works; your subconscious cannot interpret negativity. Therefore when you hear yourself making comments that include “don’t,” “won’t,” “can’t,” or “no,” you are actually giving your mind the attention to dwell on these negative emotions. You attract to your life whatever you give your attention, energy and focus to, wanted or unwanted.

9. Get in the habit of writing, calling or e-mailing at least 4 notes per day, simply saying thank you, getting back in touch or offering help to someone in need. Apply your faith in what is good in the world and pass it on to someone else.

10. Educate yourself on the pitfalls we face as a society as to why young people turn to drugs to alcohol to escape painful feelings and memories. Understand that spirituality and faith, family and high self-esteem are the cornerstones for living a happy, successful life.

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Jun 9, 2013 - Musings    No Comments

48 Empowering Messages Your Children Need to Hear

Provided by Finer Minds

In this article, guest writer (author of the Child Whisperer and Chakra Healing) Carol Tuttle, shares with us 48 empowering messages we should tell children so they grow up to be accepting of the qualities that make them special.

The messages your children hear from you today will nfluence the beliefs they hold about themselves as adults.

Give them a head start on loving and trusting themselves by consciously choosing the messages you send.

Children naturally express one of four, general patterns of energy. Each child needs specific supportive messages that honor their natural movement.

Use these phrases in words (or consider how you could express them in action) to help your child feel loved and empowered for who they really are.

>>> Read the article on FinerMinds

Type 1 Child: Fun-loving 

These children are light, bouncy and social. They may struggle with being judged as hyper or flighty. Empower Type 1 children with the message that fun is okay, and they’ll grow up into adults who naturally bring hope and new ideas to others:

Try saying the following messages to empower them:

  • You’re so fun
  • It’s okay for you to make noise and laugh and play
  • You’re so creative and imaginative
  • It’s okay for you to change your mind
  • You have great ideas; thank you for sharing them
  • You learn so quickly
  • Trust your ideas; they’re brilliant
  • You’re not in charge of making me happy – I am
  • You can have as many friends as you want
  • I love to spend time having fun with you

Type 2 Child: Sensitive

These children are subtle, gentle and emotional. They can struggle with feeling invisible or weak. Empower this type of child to see their emotions as strengths, and they’ll grow up to bring peace and comfort to others.

Try repeating the following messages to reassure them:

  • You’re so sweet
  • It’s okay for you to take your time and think things through
  • You’re so thoughtful and mindful of others
  • It’s okay for you to take your time
  • You have great questions; thank you for asking
  • You learn so intuitively
  • Trust your emotional intuition
  • You’re not responsible for my feelings – I am.
  • You can connect with friends however it feels most  comfortable to you
  • I love to spend quiet time together with you

>>> Read the article on FinerMinds

Type 3 Child: Determined

These children are dynamic, active and physical. They can struggle when always told to calm down. Empower this type of child with messages of support, and they will grow up to motivate and encourage others:

  • You’re so strong
  • It’s okay to move, to touch, to explore, and get your hands into things
  • You’re so determined and good at encouraging others
  • It’s okay for you to move as fast as you want to
  • You do great things; thank you for letting me share them with you
  • You’re so good at learning with your hands
  • Trust your gut
  • It’s not your job to push me to do good things – that’s my job
  • You can engage your friends however feels best for you
  • You did it!

Type 4 Child: Serious

These children are reflective, consistent and intellectual.  They can struggle with being seen as critical. Empower this type of child with messages of respect, and they will grow up using their keen eye to perfect the world:

  • You’re so observant
  • It’s okay for you to observe and think first, before jumping in
  • You’re so loyal and caring
  • You can have as much structure and routine in your life as you want
  • You understand things clearly; thank you for sharing  your thoughts
  • You learn so thoroughly
  • Trust your thoughts; they are brilliant
  • It’s not your job to make sure others are following the rules
  • You don’t have to talk to other people if you don’t want to
  • I respect your boundaries

Messages for Every Type of Child

No matter what type of energy your child expresses, he or she needs to hear positive and empowering messages from you too:

Welcome to the world: we have a special place prepared for you

  • You can be you and I will always love you
  • It’s okay for you to be different from me – we will work out our differences
  • You can try new things and find your own way of doing things
  • You’re just the way you need to be in order to succeed
  • It’s okay to make mistakes
  • You can take all the time you need to grow up
  • I love you just the way you are

If You Didn’t Hear Those Messages As a Child…

It’s okay. You can still be empowered now, even if you weren’t as a child. Choose a few messages here that resonate with you the most, write them down, and put them omewhere you will see them all.

Give love and support to yourself as freely as you do to your children. Empower your children. Empower yourself. As you do, you naturally create a better world.

To filling our children with love and self-acceptance,

The FinerMinds Team

 

Jun 3, 2013 - Musings    No Comments

12 Happiness Activities

By: Brian Johnson

Here they are, from Sonja Lyubomirsky’s book 

The How of Happiness:

1. Expressing Gratitude 

2. Cultivating Optimism

3. Avoiding Overthinking and Social Comparison

4. Practicing Acts of Kindness

5. Nurturing Social Relationships

6. Developing Strategies for Coping

7. Learning to Forgive

8. Increasing Flow Experiences

9. Savoring Life’s Joys

10. Committing to Your Goals

11. Practicing Religion and Spirituality

12. Taking Care of Your Body: Meditation + Physical Activity + Acting Like a Happy Person

A cool point Sonja makes again and again (!) throughout the book is that it’s *essential* for us to choose activities that inspire us as we’re much more likely to follow through on those activities than doing something we think we “should” do.

Jun 2, 2013 - Musings    No Comments

Personal Worth

“I believe that a life of integrity is the most fundamental source of personal worth. I do not agree with the popular success literature that says that self-esteem is primarily a matter of mind-set, of attitude — that you can psych yourself into peace of mind. Peace of mind comes when your life is in harmony with true principles and values and in no other way.” 

– Stephen R. Covey from The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.

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