I just viewed the movie Noah. The mythical story about God destroying Man who had evolved to be evil and corrupted the earth. It’s a story about new beginnings wherein a chosen man and family were selected to start over. Noah created an ark to save mated pairs of every animal and to ride above a global flood sent by God.
The metaphor and the message were boldly portrayed through imaginative visual effects and human drama. For me it was a powerful reminder that ‘new beginnings’ are always available and are the elixir of life.
How does God speak to me? Continually I see and hear life-engaging messages. Most are dismissed as visions and sounds of everyday life. The meanings I attach to them vary, rise, and fall. I feel that they become significant when these messages portray values of moving forward – regardless of current circumstances. The impactful messages only point to continue taking actions to model behaviors affirming the importance of family, fairness, compassion, helpfulness, courage, and thankfulness. What if like Noah I was ‘chosen’ and ignored the ‘calling’? What if everyone of us is?
“The purpose of life is a Life of Purpose.” Much angst is experienced in trying to ‘figure it out’. In times when I experience clarity it comes from determining that there is no purpose other than moving forward with resourceful integrity and compassion without regard for what is currently happening. Being useful in service to others feels purposeful. The significance of Noah’s story is to listen, abide, and act on the messages that rise up from the inner voice that I connect to Truth.
“Don’ judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant.” – Robert Louis Stevenson
Story by Michael Josephson – former law professor and attorney, founder of nonprofit ‘Institute of Ethics’ in Los Angeles, California.
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I received an email with a story worth sharing. Only the names have been changed to preserve privacy.
Doug is the proud and loving father of Emma, a high school junior who takes a leadership class responsible for putting on dances and other student events. All student body officers must take the class, but a number of other kids like Emma who just like to participate are also enrolled. Well, Emma is a little different and she’s becoming more aware of those differences. Recently, she began to tell her father through tears, “I don’t like having Down’s Syndrome.”
Doug comforted and encouraged his daughter the best he could, but he admits he always wonders how her classmates really perceive her. Do they just tolerate or patronize her, or do they see the richness of her character and appreciate her sense of humor and the beauty of her heart?
These concerns came into play when he visited Emma at a school event where she was working at a table with the student body president, a handsome kid named Chris. Later, Emma announced that Chris had invited her to the homecoming dance. Doug was doubtful and afraid that she might be embarrassed or hurt if she misunderstood. So he checked with the leadership teacher, who discreetly confirmed it was true. This extraordinary young man asked Emma to accompany him to dinner and the dance.
Doug was moved to tears and confessed he was ashamed he doubted this could happen. He wrote of his joy seeing his daughter prepare for one of the greatest days in her life. And he marveled at the kindness and self-confidence of the young man who was able to see and care about the inner Emma.
Doug was rightfully proud of Emma, but how good would you feel to be Chris’s parents?
This is Michael Josephson reminding you that character counts.
The key to avoid going down the wrong path. The importance of restating your vision once and again.
A clear perception of the world brings man unlimited rewards, but learning to see the truth is seldom easy and never without cost. Only by developing an ambitious and realistic vision of the future can man escape the trap of paralysis. Without sharply-defined objectives, we tend to fall into conformity, a bank from which we can borrow short-term convenience in exchange for a mortgage on our soul.
How to avoid blocking your own personal development
“Men should avoid the distractions of pretense and delusion,” wrote German philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer in the year 1842. “Expectations disconnected from reality always result in disappointment and sorrow.”
Take the time to reflect about what you want to achieve in life and try to condense your dreams in one sentence. Without self-starting motivation, man is easily blinded by a fog of contradictions that lead to expensive mistakes.
Only a self-image of health can permanently prevent individuals from consuming unhealthy food. People who have not established self-preservation as a goal, keep on consuming damaging substances despite being aware of their long-term negative effects, in the illusion that, somehow, they alone will be immune to the consequences.
The same principle applies to decaying work environments. Men and women who have not determined ambitious long-term objectives for themselves, tend to close their eyes to signs of decline in the company they work for in order to avoid the nuisance of searching alternative employment.
The key to avoid going down the wrong path
Write down your own vision of the future and keep it where you can see it. Defining your destination will help you avoid wrong relationships and avert people who drag you down. Men who lack firm ethical values tend to ignore character flaws in people they meet and often go as far as attributing non-existent virtues to whomever they find sexually attractive, even if that person is manifestly keeping them away from the path of achievement.
Defining your goals in life will not render you immune to errors, but will help you minimize them. When it comes to choosing the right alternative, few habits are as effective as standing still, questioning what looks too good to be true, and checking its consistency with your established objectives.
The importance of restating your vision once and again
“Only an unclouded vision of reality allows man to perceive truth,” observed Schopenhauer. “Decisions based on facts render individuals self-supporting, which is the key of happiness.” History shows that lack of rational values, more than ignorance, constitutes the main block to progress. A man should never forget that his advancement towards success and happiness depends on his loyalty to his own rational objectives.
Write down your fundamental goals and summarize them in one sentence. Restate your vision of the future at every opportunity and discard options that don’t match it. Only by our achieving philosophical clarity can our actions be consistent and effective. Moving continuously in the direction of your goals will maximize your chances of success and happiness.
Rev. Russell Williams
Chief Inspirational Officer
Leaders of Integrity, ETHICAL EDGE, and I am blessed to add, my friend.
It was a Friday evening…mid-December 1955. The holiday season was in full display. Dad was driving his 3 kids…my sister, brother and me…to the Santa Fe Railroad Depot in Pasadena to await the arrival of our grandmother traveling on the Super Chief from Albuquerque. We got there early enough to take our positions standing behind the white line to await the train’s arrival. It was the first time we had ever seen the Super Chief arrive at night. I was so excited!
The announcement of the train’s imminent arrival did not occur over a loud speaker. It was far better than that. Before I could see the Super Chief 300 yards up the track as it made its turn from the east onto the southbound straightaway to the depot, there was a vibration on the ground that grew by the moment until the vibration was so strong that it went through my whole body. Then came the moment….as the locomotive engine made its turn…a brilliantly large single, oscillating light came into view bringing a showering of light everywhere present to accompany the overwhelming vibration that now roared through my body. What a treasured childhood memory!
That boyhood experience matured over the years into a deep, appreciative understanding of the Author of Light guiding our journey as individuals and a living humanity. The Light that leads us is wisdom discovered and applied in our practice to become leaders of integrity whose mission it is to serve as an influence for good at home, at work and in the community.
Back in 1781 as our fledgling nation sought to define a Constitution to guide us, Benjamin Franklin, the oldest member of The Constitutional Convention, stood before his peers for the first time…at a perilous moment in the proceedings and stated, “The longer I live..I see the truth that God governs the affairs of men.”
As I turn the corner into the metaphoric last 300 yards of my professional life, I am choosing to dedicate my energies to give voice to a role I now define as the chief inspirational officer of the Leaders of Integrity initiative birthed in 2009 as the Ethical Edge. Similar to the turbulent time of long ago, we shall, together, grow our influence as wisdom keepers of the Light leading us.
I believe every person who is pursuing their role as a leader of integrity needs the powerful vitamins of hope and encouragement to offer light to their path. This effort now animates my work with you and many others in our shared mission of influence for good.
In closing, I thank you for your involvement and support of the mission of Passkeys, a non-profit publicly supported foundation. I appreciate your year-end, charitable gift as an expression of your gratitude for the contribution the foundation is making in the lives of many…and I trust includes you.
I am proud to share a story about one my favorite mentors, Anthony Robbins.
I met Tony in 1985 in Aspen, Colorado, at a global conference on World Peace that had been arranged by Thomas Crum, friend, sifu, and partner to the country-music artist John Denver. A dear friend and mentor, Dr. Jeff Alexander founder of Warrior Spirit (www.warriorspiritit.com) introduced me to Tony.
I did my first ‘fire-walk’ with Tony the first night of the conference. It was a magical experience. The power for me was not in safely transiting the hot coals in bare feet. The personal victory and lasting empowerment was in believing in self, mastering fear, and allowing myself to do it.
During the three-day meeting I spent some time with Tony and told him how I thought his message of personal responsibility and empowerment was needed and would be welcomed in Panama, R.P.
I had resided in Panama for the last 10 years conducting a growing business in the warehousing and relocation industry. I considered it home and was very concerned about the increasing negative changes under the self-imposed dictator, Manuel Noriega. I told Tony that there were many people opposed to Noriega’s corruption and cruelty – and that most felt powerless.
Under the guise of conducting a leadership training Tony agreed to come to Panama for a week if I would organize and financially support the event. Thrilled with the opportunity and having no clue what my next step would be, I committed with an enthusiastic, “Yes.’
With only three months to prepare for the training and recruit attendees I moved into over-drive. My memory is that because this new large task, added to my already demanding business responsibilities, was energized by unbridled passion and enthusiasm, I became more efficient at all tasks.
Panama was far off the seminar trail – few ‘speakers of note’ ever visited the Republic. The increasing political chaos and violence were also factors dissuading visitors.
In 1985 Tony was still a relative ‘unknown’, especially outside the US. My explanations about the fire-walk, Tony’s training sessions, and recruiting for the seminar became time-consuming challenges.
Fortunately, I had recruited several friends who worked for the US Army in senior admin positions who were interested in human development work. We concluded that conducting the event in the US controlled Canal Zone would shield us from the suspicious and corrupt Panama government.
Getting permission from local skeptical authorities to conduct a seminar with a ‘fire-walk’ on US government premises had been an exercise in artful negotiations. I personally agreed to take responsibility for all property damage and personal injuries.
A day before the ‘Fear into Power–the Fire Walk Experience’ was scheduled a supportive friend had arranged a luncheon information briefing at the Officers’ Club in Fort Amador, HQ for the US Army Southern Command. Over 175 people were waiting to meet Tony and learn about his programs. We waited and waited.
Lesson # 1: Always arrive at least 24 hours before any important scheduled event.
Tony had been scheduled to arrive early that day in plenty of time to attend the luncheon. He had arranged to fly from Los Angeles to Miami, remain overnight, and catch an early direct flight to Panama.
He missed his flight to Miami. Tony booked the next available flight to New York with a connection to Miami. Flight delays caused him to miss the Miami connection to Panama. As there were no flights to Panama until the next day Tony chartered a small private plane. The plane hopscotched several Caribbean islands before landing at Tocumen Airport, Panama, R.P. at 6:00 PM – six hours after the scheduled luncheon briefing.
This all occurred centuries before cell phones. My com-link to Tony had been through his secretary in LA who received periodic telephone travel updates from Tony. His secretary and I played phone-tag throughout the morning.
By 12:45 my luncheon guests were becoming impatient and prepared to leave. As a proxy for Tony I am not even on the same planet, however, I gave one of the best performances of my life explaining the power and opportunities of TR’s training. The audience was respectful but unimpressed until I offered all present free attendance at the ‘Fear into Power’ event. What had been a challenge to recruit 40 people to invest in the trainings now resulted in over 150 showing-up.
Lesson # 2: ‘Free’ is a powerful motivator.
The Fire-Walk was a tremendous success – no injuries – and over 100 people signed-up for the following three-day training on ‘Self-Mastery, Taking Charge, and Fitness & Health’. This program too, was an outstanding success. Many people discovered new self-appreciation and personal motivation to make empowering decisions and take consequential actions. Many of these participants became energetic devotees of the powerful teachings. An awareness of potential empowerment had been ignited in the community.
During the trip planning Tony had asked me if there were any persons of influence that I would like him to meet. A special friend who had connections with the Panama government had arranged a meeting for Tony with Nicolas Bartletta, the President of the Republic of Panama. Bartletta had formerly been the Vice-President of the World Bank. He had been pressed into service by General Noriega to help give his government a perception of legitimacy and credibility.
Tony’s departure date had been scheduled for 4:00 PM the day after the seminar. The meeting with President Barletta had been arranged for 1:00 PM at the Presidencia.
In the morning of the departure day Tony and I were engaged in conversation. I told him the story of Jose Sinisterra. Six months before Jose, a fit and very competent local private contractor, was building a set of new multi-story offices inside my large warehouse. Jose had fallen off a 25 ft. scaffolding, landing on the warehouse concrete floor, and became paralyzed from the neck down.
Lesson # 3: Whatever the task, physical, mental, or social, an appropriate ‘safety harness’ is essential.
Jose spent the next four months in the hospital. After repeated treatments the doctors essentially gave-up any chances of physical improvement and sent him home to vegetate – or die.
I would visit Jose in his home leaving encouraged by his spirit but frustrated by his lack of physical progress, and my inability to render meaningful help.
Tony asked if we could visit Jose prior to going to the Presidencia. Jose’s wife advised that she and Jose would be glad to see us. We arranged an 11:00 AM visit.
You likely know that Tony is a very tall man – 6’ 7”. Towering over the bedridden Jose he appeared as a friendly giant.
Tony talked at length to Jose, asking him about his family, his previous work, his former hopes and dreams, and his feelings about finding himself in his current physical condition. Tony sincerely acknowledged his broken dreams while re-affirming his personal courage and strength to fight on. Jose was excited with the attention. He likely had not had such an in depth conversation or acknowledgment.
Lesson # 4: Sincere caring and acknowledgment is the surest pathway to establish a meaningful relationship.
Tony asked Jose to join him in a ‘closed-eye directed visualization’ exercise. With his agreement Tony guided Jose to create a series of mental pictures wherein he saw himself as ever more healthy and being able to contribute to his family. These images were not to be based on a wholly restored body but were suggesting that Jose could willfully gain more control and ability to contribute in new ways.
Jose had no movement of any body part south of his chin. During the visualization exercise Tony instructed Jose to direct his focus and energy to his feet. After 10 minutes Jose’s toes began to move – for the first time since his fall!
Lesson # 5: Our directed and energized ‘Will’ is one of our most resourceful but under-used powers.
It was 12:30. I quietly reminded Tony that we had to be leaving to meet the President. Tony said, “Jim – this is the most important thing I can personally do right now. Please call President Barletta and tell him that we will be late.” Somewhat shocked, with immense respect and appreciation for Tony, I called the President’s office and relayed the message.
We left Jose’s apartment at 1:30 leaving behind a very grateful and inspired family.
Arriving more than an hour late we expected to be greeted by a chastising President. Ushered in to President Barletta’s office, we demonstrated sincere respect and appreciation for the meeting opportunity and re-directed the energy. President Barletta was curious about Tony, his principles, and practices.
The President was immersed in a very contentious struggle with the despotic military, some of Noriega’s appointed cabinet ministers, and others in and near government working for social change to improve the well-being of the people of Panama. Tony and the President discussed what power he really had and how he might use his leadership position and personal influence to effectively promote change. President Barletta was very open and receptive to suggestions. He admitted that his authority was largely thwarted by General Noriega. He confided that he had to operate very carefully to pursue opportunities for change.
Tony asked the President if he would allow Tony to guide him in a ‘closed-eye visualization’ exercise. Tony advised that the process would be to relieve stress, energize him, and offer discovery of potential insights and ideas to use his influence more effectively.
In the stillness of the private office, with only Tony, the President, and myself present, Tony guided us through an empowering process that lasted over half an hour. A grateful President confirmed that he felt more insightful, energetic, directed, and hopeful.
The time was 3:15. The airport was 40 minutes drive form the Presidencia. Tony’s Air Panama flight to New York was scheduled to depart at 4:00. As we were about to leave the President’s office Tony turned to President Barletta and said, “ Mr. President would you please call the airline and ask them to hold the plane for me.” He did. They did. Tony made the flight and met with Donald Trump the next day.
Lesson # 6: “if you don’t ask – you don’t get!”
For over 30 years Tony’s coaching has been a positive influence in my life. With great appreciation I have embraced and worked to practice his teachings. I have worked to teach his leadership principles and life skills’ strategies to my employees. I have witnessed his successes in empowering millions of people in over 100 countries through his trainings, books, videos, and CD’s. He has counseled world famous celebrities, athletes, businessmen, and even US Presidents.
Tony, the ‘larger-than-life’ Coach, with his fantastic ability to effectively communicate self-empowering principles, and as impressive as his continuing contributions are I can personally attest are matched by his compassion and integrity.
PS – After Tony Robbins presented his seminars in Panama we took him to the Darien to meet Cacique Mezua. This was a special adventure for Tony and the Indios,?
PPS: Some months after Tony’s visit I sold my businesses and moved with my new beautiful wife to California. In less than two years I moved to Asia and lost contact with Jose. In 2012, I asked my good friend, Michael Pierce, a respected attorney, still residing in Panama, to find out if Jose was alive and what this condition was. In a few days Mike reported that Jose was indeed still alive. Although he was still a paraplegic he had regained some use of his hands and had become an active letter writer on locally important social issues. Jose’s two sons (both named Jose!) were gainfully employed, the family was stable, and if not thriving, remained positive about the future.
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